Relationship to victim | The day of the disaster | The first weeks | Identification | 18 months after the incident | Commemoration: The first period | Commemoration: 18 months after the incident | Practical consequences | Unlike a car accident | Media attention | Attending national commemoration event |
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Close | Disbelief | Focus on work /distraction | Informed by family or manager | Recovering slowly | Activities varied | Missing coworkers | Work continuation | Unfair | Hard to escape | Not attending |
Bond | Sadness | Sleep problems | Avoidance | Missing the victim | Flowers and candles | Compassion | Privacy issues | Uncertainty | Excessive | Need to be acknowledged / recognized |
Trust | Denial | Headaches | Searching for information | Memorial | Dilemmas | Confronting what the victims left behind | Hard to understand | Stressful | ||
Intensity varies | Anger | Pain | Poorly informed | Meetings | Workload reduction | Extreme | Blame games | |||
Friend | Shock | Feeling sad | Days off | |||||||
Health care utilization/ medication | Avoidance |